[26] I HEART BEING SINGLE

(#26 OF THE TOP 40 BLOG POST OF 2009. WOW, IT FEELS LIKE YESTERDAY WHEN I DID THIS. THIS ACTUALLY GOT THE MOST COMMENTS ON MY BLOG OVER ALL.

"i cant settle down, one women just dont satisfy my needs"-Pharcity(unsigned artists from CT)

Being single, some of you may read this and have a lot to say, but i think if you can write from this point of view you have to have been in a serious relationship and you have to have been single enough to enjoy it.

People dont realize being in a relationship holds you back from alot. Dont you hate when you have to rush to go home because your girl is hounding you fellas? Ladies dont you hate when your boyfriend keeps textin' thinking you up to no good and you not? Fellas dont you hate when you in the club and see your old fling who was one of your top partners but you gotta go home to wifey? Ladies dont you hate when you meet a dude who will buy you anything expensive but you dont want your boyfriend to know because he gon think its more than that, and it really isnt!

Me, i did the relationship thing. I only had 3 relationships in my lifetime. 2 lived on the same street, and one was long distance. I love being single these days. I hate to be questioned if you not my girlfriend or investigating on me as if i have a committent with you. Now its rude to say it like that, and i can explain. My man Mwill had an away message up that i took asap "If you only trusted me i wouldnt lie". Guys hate to feel like they lying from the female especially when it is the truth.

I salute guys who are engaged or married around my age thats just tough. The way the world is today, Everybody cheats! Most guys dont wanna settledown until they are about 27,28. So ladies this is an fyi, if a guy cheats during the relationship and he is younger than that and you are in love with him. You have to cut him some slack, he is still growing up in a relationship manor. Dont be quick to say he "is not a man", he can still be a man its just he is not in a long term commitment without cheating yet.

Me, i dont trust no female, i will give my wife 88% of my trust. I watch maury, had sex with fiance's, watch cheaters, have good female friends who do sh** like a dude, etc etc etc. Im well trained and have a legitamate reason to not trust females. Even my best relationship which happend to be longterm. I did her wrong i cheated etc but in our confession time, guess what she confessed she had sex with her ex at a random time. So who lost? because mine was worst? My point is trust from William H. these days is hard to find. Dont get me wrong, she was a good girl its just i dont put nothing past no female. And if she happens to read this for the record Im not playing the victem, i said i was worst in the situation.

When you are in a relationship you miss out on many opportunitys, you start meeting connects that your partner might knock you for, you miss random vacations with the opposite sex that you know you would have fun, you out on casting call opportunities(nobody wants their mate to be on real world), you miss out on money opportunities, etc. etc. Relationships hold you back plenty of times.

Now fellas being single can cause alottttttttt of drama though, and i know we know this, because it can start off as a F**k, and she will know it, then she catch feelings, then next thing you know to start slippin' love up, and relationship talk etc etc. Females get crazy with that.

Be on the lookout for "being single, the soap opera" i will be doing more post diary-like form about my life with details which will be very interesting....

and for the record female viewers .........Im not 'not' looking for a girlfriend, if she comes, let her come, im here :-). H is very relational, and that will be the day the facebook gets canceled myspace gets remixed and the blog gets remixed and r.i.p the aim.....hahaaa(50 laugh)