[11] GOOD HEAD SAVES RELATIONSHIPS

[#11 OF TOP 40 BLOG POST OF 2009. THIS WAS VERY VITAL! WOMEN HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THIS:

For anyone that knows me, they would know this been my motto for a while. But i never really explain why this topic is so true and most guys might find this topic very true where girls might find this topic new. The ideal of this subject is that most relationships lack this. Many females dont understand that guys watch porn, "like hoes", etc because its real fantasy for them. If you notice on porns, the females are of course xxx, and real fantasy probably not the typical girl in the bedroom. So a guy being in a relationship, imagine him watching a porno and the girl is doing the 'nastiest' session of oral and the guy watching it loves it. And he you get home, late night and you guys get into your sex action and you come in with the innocent oral sex, scared of sperm, barely touching it, not interested etc. All because you scared or just need a alittle insight on how to do it.(not that i will tell you how i like it) but its pretty much similar to many xxx porn scenes.

Good head, keeps your boyfriend,main squeeze whoever the guy is that you love etc. coming back. I mean even if he cheated etc. Its easy for a girl to have "good sex", but when you have "good head" its hard to find, and it will definitely keep a guy coming back whether he wants to or not. In all honest guys are suckas for good head, so if you can do it well, you can probably have him pay your rent(in the relationship that is *wink*).

Many women dont understand how important oral sex is for a guy. Of course they rather have it performed on them but in actuality, guys need it more. For use during sex we are the ones who do 80% of the movement. Sometimes we just need to relax and recieve it and thats it for a chance. Espcially "Good Head" at that. Oral sex on a guy should be better than masturbation. In other words if you cant do it better than a guy masturbating himself. You need some lessons.

And to my fellas, if you not being treated at home right. Take the time out to tell your girl how you prefer it. Because the average girl thinks she is good anyway. Many guys like different things. So it may be something you prefer vs. if she is good or not. She cant help whether to know if she good or not. But in the end just remember, you have a better off long last relationship, if the head is good.