Tuesday, December 8, 2009

[#37] PLAY THE GAME RESPECT THE GAME

[#37 ON THE TOP 40 BLOG POST IS A LESSON THAT SHOULD BE LEARNED BEING SINGLE AND UNDERSTANDING THE LIFE OF IT ON THE OUTSIDE]

Ok, me like i said in previous post, im single , im not a playa or nothin' but like any other single person yes i have talked to a few women at the same time. Its called being single duh. But when you play the game(not that its a game but it sounds dope saying game) you also have to take it if it comes at you.

There was a girl that i was great friends with, still am alittle but not sure what happen, well kinda i know what happen but thats where the story ends. We were great friends for years, always had a strong attraction for each other, not to add a strong sexual attraction as well. So we started sorta dealin' with each other. One thing we had in common was that, i respected her single'ness, shes pretty as hell, had a flock of dudes that wanted her, some dudes i know she dealt with, and she knew the same was for me, we always would joke about it like "where ya fan club @ etc". So we would get up occasionally, i wont even have to talk to her everyday, just had a dope relationship like that but when we did see each other, whatever happen, happened. Now everybody knew it was this kid, that was on her heelz, i guess they messed around b4 in the past, supposeably he is playing Daddy to her lil one & im actually friends with the dude. She would always tell me how she would diss him all the time, call him just to bring food over, like downplay it soooo much it was ridiculous.

Downplay, i plan to blog about this very soon, so stay tune. So i mean, i really didnt care, i knew my place, i just thought personally she was too good for him anyway to even give him time of day. So we started to fading away i notice she was kinda being distant not because of anything in perticular but you know the busy life sometimes things just fadeaway. So i aint see her no where(clubs,mall etc) never heard from her or nothing, she is in club aim with me but we dont talk, we both got too much pride to worrying why we havent been hittin each other.

So i happen to be around this weekend, late night around 3am to get some food after the club. Im right behind a couple holding hands thinking like "damn she look cute from the back lol" He turned around first "whats poppin son" its the dude...and she turned around...."hey wes, how are you".....i looked in her eyes with the smurk like coolin'...and asked him a couple of random questions and kept it moving. She had the awkward look though, just as much as she use to diss him to me, it was soo funny seeing her with him holding hands though i wish i could of took a pic..

But but but...i have to respect her Game......she still looked cool when she looked me in my eyes, she aint half step or nothing, knowing she been with me, doing
this & that..and sometimes this, she was smooth. We're good friends though, so when we start talking again, i cant wait to throw it in her face and laugh...

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