[24] TOP 5 THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS

(#24 OF TOP 40 BLOG POST OF 2009. THIS IS VERRRRRRRRRRRRY IMPORTANT! I HAD 2 LONGS DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP SO THIS CAME FROM DEFINITE EXPERIENCES AS EVERYTHING ELSE.)


Now any of my friends that really know me, would know that i have a history of dealing with long distance relationships. My ex-girlfriend was from Virginia, and we were together for about 4 years off and on. So im pretty much got a good sense of long distance relationships. This post was actually inspired by the VIP CC, where i dish out random cool emails to 10 friends of mine and we just bug out. They dont know each other but they all know me. Well recently randomly 2 fellow CC members are dating heavy. Im thinking maybe they are in a relationship. But in long distance relationships i definitely learned alot, there tough but they are so warming because you have is communication. You cant just run over to the crib and kiss them. So here are my top 5 things to know about long distance relationships:

1. Long Distance Relationships should always remain open. If you commit, it will end up being just friends so rather than playing boyfriend/girlfriend mode. Just keep it open and grow with each other.
2. Always remember Honesty will never last. No matter how much you think your mate is being faithful, they will never tell 100% the truth. Thats in regular relationships too. But long distance, you never want to make your mate think different of you, so what usually happens, you lie.
3. The sex is always great because you plan so far ahead and you think about everything that you been dying to do. And its more appreciated. Usually a dude probably will cum asap when they first have sex but then after it will be the best.
4. Its so easy to fall in love. You noticed and remember everything about the person, long distance you appreciate more than the average relationships. You fall in love so quickly, thats all you know. You get use to the early morning late night convos and you feel like your day is not complete if you dont get it.
5. But # 2 can be your worst nightmare for # 4. It can be the worst heartbreak. And i know from my ex. It can result into so many complications.

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