THE EX FACTOR

[Read #1 on previous post TOP 5 reasons she may be cheating]

On my previous post on top 5 reasons she may be cheating was one of my best classic posts. #1 stated

1.The "Ex" Factor
And i aint talking that MTV show. But bottom line with this is, if your girl, main squeeze or whoever is talking to her ex, friends with her ex or you find out that there is any type of communication with there ex. DEAD IT! She still F***kin em.

One of my ex's, i would see her randomly like once a season. Everytime i see her its usually in a club or the nightlife. I actually ran into her at a sneaker store while she was with her "dirty ass boyfriend" lol. I say that because thats what people say, my man hit me like _____ in here with her dirty ass boyfriend. I died! So anyway when i see her 80% of the time im tipsy and she is too. Now if i could remember her and her boyfriend are pretty serious. But real niggaz know if you want a girl you can really careless if there was a ring on her hand or not. So i would never ask questions at all when she see me. Every time she see me she comes straight up to me and wants to talk face to face like 2cm's away from kissing me. I always look straight as if i dont know her because body language is important. She does this to show that she is or was important to me, thats what it looks like but if i look straight and dont acknowledge it, it will look like im not interested, and i dont be. But everytime she would flirt and want to link up with me saying a bunch of nonsense in my ear. She even got my # from my mother recently. (Smh my mother always giving my # out lol).

So now that you have alittle background information lets move forward to the story:

So im at the bar taking my bailey and hennessey from my favorite bartender, people always ask what am i drinking, thats my chill drink. Somebody taps me, i turn around it her. Gave her a nice a hug. I look up and down real quick smoothly like how females do, i had to see if anything change. Hmm still look good, ass not there like it use to be but still look good.

"so how you been"

"im good, u"---i say

"good....i miss you"

Now right there i give her 'the fuck outta here' face. I dont understand why ex's feel they have to express feelings, flirt etc on the spot. I say "listen you not gonna do this time..". She smiles. "what? i do". So i say "you act like you cant find me, you only got my # 4839754 times in the past 2 years". And i knew she was serious with her boyfriend years back because i remember i texted her randomly and i got a response that i knew it wasnt her, some boyfriend play detective to a whole new level. I didnt even respond, i knew what it was. So she says "give me your number i have a new blackberry". Then she just goes in randomly "look i know before i was distant, i really do wanna be your friend but it be hard to because of him". I looked at her like "thank you". Thats the most honest you been in years. So i say look "we dont have to be friends when you see me i always will show you love".

Ok lets go back, when she says friends that means "i still wanna fuck but it'll be hard because he always around me". Thats the translation. Now what she dont know is, i dont wanna be physical with her. Theres nothing sexual about her that i do miss, only thing i can remember sexually was that she was the only girl that didnt have a gag reflex on head she can take the whole thing easy looking at me calmly. I thought that was cool back then lol.

Now i notice it was a dude next to me on my peripheal in my shades**spell check**. Soon as she put her phone back in her pocket, he went to her ear, i peeked at her response and she had the "im not doing anything wrong" swag. So i already knew what it was, dude must of been her man or another nigga on the side. He was in her ear for like a minute. Then he walked off i said "i see you got the cameras on you". She was mad from whatever he said and said "ima seriously call you". Walked off...

Moral of the story: Like i said in the other post, do not trust ex's fellas. If i want i know i can see her tonight if i wanted too, and if i really wanted too. Some ex's will always hold a spot in your girlfriend or boyfriend hearts no matter what. They just got it like that. And you would never know because she or he would never tell you 100%ly how serious the relationship was before they became an ex. Its just that, her era of my life has been done with for a while. I like to flirt with her though at the time, but that will be it. Sadly her man will never know this, and this is one of 789352749758942375894375894075893067098 relationships that are like this.