
Its 2010 and me being in the mid 20's you finally start to realize you are not as young as you may be. I said last year that 2010 would be the year i would probably get a girlfriend. Now i can think of 879789273987 reasons why i would rather be single. But in this post, im sure many men will be able to relate to me as well, well some. So here is a different side of me explaining why i wouldnt mind:
5. Building a future: In order for your future to be a good one with your mate, you have to put in some years of knowing each other. Its takes years to really REALLY get to know someone and how they think. I know you can learn alot quick when your in love but for the best of your future starting now you can build during the years now, and who knows end up married once you feel you hit that level.
4. Laying up: One thing that many people or women dont know about me is that i love to lay up. Laying up consists of eating, watching movies, reality tv, joking ass naked in the bed, watching comedy laughing with each other. Now you can do this single, but there is nothing better than doing this and not have to worry about anybody else and your friends, family know who you with etc. People in relationship can relate to this one. Its a difference when you lay up with someone and you not knowing when you will see them again.
3. Vacationing: Now this is another one where you can do this if you are single. But there is nothing better than vacationing with someone you love and you not having to hide anything. Take a million pictures now worrying about who sees them and you dont care if she post all 300 pictures of you guys kissing on the island on her facebook. Vacationing is different when you experience with your mate versus a girl thats your friend and your boys. Its different, fuck around and want to marry her while your there lol. You start seeing things different.
2. Social Online World: Now this is a more personal one for me. I just want to fall back eventually from the social networking world. Twitter, Facebook, blogging etc. can make you feel some type of way about people especially women that you may be interested in. So imagine how you come off to them. Having a girlfriend i know would keep me away from it as much. And of course my girlfriend would be these things 20% of her time a week. Versus the average girl being on social networks (BBM, twitter, facebook) about 75% of the week.
1. Somebody to cook for me daily!!: I know you laughing that this is number one, but listen i had women cook for me heavy, single and all. But with a girlfriend she would have my plate ready and she would know what i want without asking and of course she knows im coming home without asking me "am i coming over". Plus i eat so much fast food, and i gained weight in the past year so i need homecooking :(.
So who knows what will happen for me :-).
so...you want a personal chef? smh. niggas ain't shit lol
ReplyDeletei want to lay up wit u...even tho u aint my "man lol
ReplyDeleteu might be my husband one day tho *wink*
Those really are 5 good reasons to have a girlfriend...never thought a guy like you wanna settle down...hmmm i may have to get at you sometime ; )
ReplyDeleteGood luck with all this...relationships are great when it involves the right person. =)
ReplyDeleteNah I doubt that! *wink*
ReplyDeletedon't worry anonymous...
ReplyDeletehe lays up with ey'body.
-@ the last annonymous
ReplyDeleteits obvious you somebody that wanted more and you didnt get it. Sorry.
1st and foremost @ anonymous shut up and get over it seriously! Damn u weren't worth the time and your lucky you got that!
ReplyDelete2nd 'babe' I haven't been up here since 09 but I figured I'd stop by and I stopped @ this particular post which I found to be quite interesting!
Ok So let me see if I can be those 5 reasons. Put in years to get to know you, I believe it was done! Love laying up w/ u, sometimes that's all that's needed! Vacation time! Even if its a 2 day, i'd love it! Online I don't do as much maybe fb and yes ur pics are up there! COOKING.....DEFINATELY!!! Know you love to eat!
So who knows what will happen w/ us! ;-)
i feel u anonymous, i love laying up with him too ;) william h, u really know how to make a woman feel special... like she is your only
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