THE SINGLE MISTAKE MEN MAKE IN THE BED

Over at askdanandjennifer.com they had a blog about what the single mistake that men make in the bed. Before i even started reading i already knew what the answer was, and that is the lack of foreplay. Now i know we live in a world in 2009 where there is the one-night stands, there are the I just wanna f**k for right now. But men dont realize that one way we can get a head start with females is foreplay. The kissing, the touching, the licking, the talking nasty in they ear while touching their inner thigh. Women love this stuff, men tend to let this slip because of the one nighters or because they want to beat it like a cop or watching too many porns where they dont foreplay.

Now the kissing is very important. Its funny i have many females friends and whats sad is, the average man is a bad kisser according to them. Kissing is basic, ladies yall need to start teaching if dudes is bad at this, because this is like 101. I learned in middle school. Shout out to shay-shay if she ever read this. (She taught me on the spot...lol classic.) Kissing can get a woman wet if you touching the right places while kissing and saying the right things. Not just kissing the mouth, kiss everywhere. Soft, now dont get me wrong fellas, you can still get it poppin and be with the foreplay, i know my homie friends are more of the aggressive ones, and i am too, but you definitely can incorporate it with this.

Now talking in the bedroom is important too. Me i'll speak for men, i know we want women to talk nasty to us in the bedroom, but women expect the same fellas. We have to tell them things. They want to know how sexy they are, how sexy that tat is, what they are about to do to them etc. Foreplay is not just eating the women fellas, there are other small things that need to be applied. Here is an insert of the post by the way:

"Lack of foreplay is one of the biggest turn-offs in the world of SEX.
Foreplay is often understood as the set of activities done before actual intercourse. The typical menu includes kissing, caressing, getting & giving head, touching, groping, hugging, fingering etc. Men feel like dogs if they don’t engage in it, and they’ve heard or read somewhere that plenty of it makes them a great lay so they sign up. Foreplay makes gentlemen out of horny boys".


Now dont me wrong i can type a chapter out about this, i dont want to touch on too many parts of this. Off course there are sex toys and edible stuff etc. But after about all the above stuff i mentioned, the oral sex has to be great.



Eating a female is very important that you do it right, i know my female fans want me to give details about this even in blog friends comments they been asking. But to be honest if you did all the foreplay great to this point, the female should be nice and wet to this point. I tell any guy it not that hard to make a female cum off of oral sex, because all you have to do is just think how you like to get head. It takes patience, consistence & extra saliva lol. First and formost fellas google where the clitoris is because dont act like you know where it is. That area is very important. I wont get into too many details, in my sex blog i drop maybe 4th quarter i will give details. Also you can fool them a few times when your done and they are happy and completed, and she comes up to work on you. Throw her back on the bed and go in again. Foreplay is big.

And in the end, if you completed all this right, and if she cums off of oral, fellas i promise you dont even have to go long (of course you do) but they are satisfied from a good cum and good foreplay, the sex part is suppose to be the dessert, you know that good cheesecake after the dinner. Thats what the sex is suppose to be. In 2009 lets get back to the basics of foreplay..then you can start giving these away