IS MY KINKINESS BEYOND ALL OTHERS?

You ever ask yourself do you think what you like to do is beyond the normal? This is mostly for the guys and some of you ladies. When it comes to sex, i like to study it, and read stories, and pay attention to what is going on because you can always learn something or add something in your sexual lifestyle. And thats me. Sometimes i say to myself "damn is this normal" but of course somewhere in the world somebody else will love what you love. Sometimes i try not to scare my readers away lol. I know i have xxx readers and some rated pg 13 readers as well and i dont want them to think im crazy sexually when i say alot of things, So i do keep it to a mininum. But i know my regular wants and likes are beyond the average, i dont just hop into things with a female. Eventually but of course its a walking process.

But the reason i asked this is because i read random sex blogs that are dope, like www.askdanandjennifer.com and this was the topic. I thought it was interesting and they usually have great things. So they a read or either watch the video. And let me know what you think about yourself:

A Basis Of Comparison
First of all, trying to find out if your kinkiness is considered “abnormal,” or if it’s beyond all others, you’re really fighting a losing battle. What is considered “normal” in this society? It’s all about perception, which can easily be distorted by religion, culture and even television or movies. In reality, various fetishes are common, even though people don’t always share them with others. Most people actually think that their fetish or kink is “normal” and everyone else is “abnormal,” regardless of how strange their own kink would seem to someone else. That is the true crux of the matter - why let what other people do or don’t do or what other people think or don’t think dictate what you like to do in your own bedroom?
A Colorful Variety Of Fetishes
There are probably more fetishes out there than you could even imagine. Shoe fetishes and BDSM are commonly talked about, but what about crossdressing? Asian women and men? Smoking after sex? Roleplaying? The Princess Leia slave costume fetish? Believe it or not, everyone has a little kink in them somewhere. Fetishes can arise from anything in our lives, even something stemming from childhood. Did you really like the princesses in the cartoon fairy tales? Perhaps you enjoy dressing up as them now during sex and imagining what that would have been like in the movies. Perhaps your mother enjoyed getting her nails done at a salon and now you enjoy having sex with women who have extraordinarily long, false fingernails that they use during sex. There’s no limit to what someone can like during sex!
When Does It Cross The Line?
Fetishes and kinks may seem like an intensely gray area with no real boundaries, but it’s actually quite easy to find out if your fetish crosses the line. Does it severely hurt other people? Does it involve people or animals who don’t give their consent? Does it involve anyone who is not a legal adult? If you answered “yes” to any of those questions, it’s definitely time to seek professional help. If you answered “no” to all of those questions, you still might consider talking to an unbiased counselor if you find that your fetish is taking over your life, preventing you from having healthy relationships and living a normal life. If having your fetish involves only legal, consenting adults and no one is getting seriously hurt, and it is allowing you to live a full and healthy lifestyle both in and out of the bedroom, embrace your uniqueness and enjoy your fetish!