Its seems like every woman want a boyfriend these days. Whether its through my personal experiences, my personal women friends i give advice too, my personal women friends period or just random friends in the club(aim). I dont know it seems like these days you cant be friends no more with females like that, or have a sex buddy etc no more. Everybody emotional these days. Dont get me wrong my heart not made of metal myself but it just seems like women are quick to want a man or expect more asap. Or fellas we all know the ones that do this, they start off as if 'they know the game & they dont want no strings attached' then later down the line they start creepin' in with "why we never go out" "you stay on ya sidekick when im around" or "Who that".
Now me i love being single. But i believe the best relationships in life are the ones thats take time to develop whether its through a friendship, best friends or even f**k buddies. Women have a hard time being in a rush. Most women I know they'll go from fucking with someone serious then 2 weeks later they'll be calling the next bay or doing relational stuff with them asap. I feel like there should be no rush. Just let the relationship develop. I like joking, having fun, chill when we can or w/e. If it takes us 2 years to even start dating or takes us 3 years to be in a relationship, so be it. Atleast we didnt rush, atleast we gotten to known each other thoroughly.
In some relationship mainly the f**k buddies, You sorta get all the relational things already, the kissing the dating etc. These are the women that want "Title". Me, long as you make me feel special im good. I feel this way should be vice versa. But it doesnt, women need title. You know why because women love saying "my boyfriend this, my boyfriend that" lol. Ladies love to talk about they man. They cant really say too much if they feel they not the only one you spending your time with. My thing is relationships are overated, you know what i take that back, relationships are rushed, i believed the average relationship is rushed. Just let the relationship build. You gon rush and realize you on Love-Lockdown(no kanye). And like i said in my other post, you miss out on way too many opportunities in rushed relationships. I even have a friend, cant put him out there though, good man, supposely he was going to hang up the jersey with his fiance and kids, they were known as a great couple, recently they just broke-up, could it have been rushed? Who knows but I know its not what people thought what would happen.....but i did.
Moral of this post....
Relax while im on my sidekick.....lmao...im so special(jamaican voice)
Now me i love being single. But i believe the best relationships in life are the ones thats take time to develop whether its through a friendship, best friends or even f**k buddies. Women have a hard time being in a rush. Most women I know they'll go from fucking with someone serious then 2 weeks later they'll be calling the next bay or doing relational stuff with them asap. I feel like there should be no rush. Just let the relationship develop. I like joking, having fun, chill when we can or w/e. If it takes us 2 years to even start dating or takes us 3 years to be in a relationship, so be it. Atleast we didnt rush, atleast we gotten to known each other thoroughly.
In some relationship mainly the f**k buddies, You sorta get all the relational things already, the kissing the dating etc. These are the women that want "Title". Me, long as you make me feel special im good. I feel this way should be vice versa. But it doesnt, women need title. You know why because women love saying "my boyfriend this, my boyfriend that" lol. Ladies love to talk about they man. They cant really say too much if they feel they not the only one you spending your time with. My thing is relationships are overated, you know what i take that back, relationships are rushed, i believed the average relationship is rushed. Just let the relationship build. You gon rush and realize you on Love-Lockdown(no kanye). And like i said in my other post, you miss out on way too many opportunities in rushed relationships. I even have a friend, cant put him out there though, good man, supposely he was going to hang up the jersey with his fiance and kids, they were known as a great couple, recently they just broke-up, could it have been rushed? Who knows but I know its not what people thought what would happen.....but i did.
Moral of this post....
Relax while im on my sidekick.....lmao...im so special(jamaican voice)
I think its more to this and what you've said. Fuck buddies change when situations do. Do they go on dates... do they state hop together? Hit the scene together just no one knows they're fucking. Or is this strictly some call me when you want some and I'll be there and leave after? Rules to each situation are different. Feelings are allowed... in some instances are long as feelings are in check.
ReplyDeleteBeing on a sidekick when you're with company is just ride as hell... period. and I can say that because I know guys who will silent a phone with me or dead a convo.. .aim or verbal... but ME?!!? LEt me shit buzz... I'm all in my convo... even during dinner. But Ive been working on it becausr even I feel bad like "Damn this is rude as hell."
the bottomline is that person is not keeping your attention and the sidekick is... and in that case... u need not be put in a position to get bugged on for being on the sidekick... get up and keep it moving... tell lil mama you'll holla later.
i agree with you on some levels...relationships are rushed, folks don't realize that you need to build a foundation first in order to have a healthy, long lasting relationship. I think you realize all of these things with age and experience.....we all know that women mature about 5 years faster then men so we are usually ready for the "labels" in our early 20's and looking for marriage in our late 20's.
ReplyDeletei have never been into the cut buddies, or being someones bust it baby, nor do i wanna be friends with benefits because you never know how many others there are with these same titles.
i constantly get cursed at for being on my sidekick while im chilling with my male friends.. its a force of habit. If they take it personal thats exactly what it is... a personal problem lol.
ReplyDeleteHi this is my first comment on your bloggz and I decided to comment on this one. I totally agree with you to a certain extent first and foremost (I'm speaking from experience) a lot of times guys will lead a women on and spend a lot of time with her and tell her he feels like she's the one and even tell her that! I'm not gullable but I think some women take that and run with it.but guys They don't want you to go out, before you know it your stayin together everynite feels like a relationship so why not?
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